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Her desire to have sex is md as valid as your desire to not have sex, and the sooner you accept this the better off you'll be. With a former partner, we had a policy of "If you can get me up, you can have me" which kind of worked.

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If a person doesn't want sex, crying and pouting rarely induce the desire for sex. That is still the plan for Saturday, right? We earn a commission for products purchased through some links in this article. You don't say whether she's initiating or you're initiating when you do feel like having sex, but if she's suggesting it more often than you are, and you're rejecting her more often than she's rejecting you, that's probably where her hurt feelings are coming from.

She says that I am rejecting her becuase I don't want to "be with her" when I don't think that being with her is absolutely reliant on sexual intimacy. It is not cool.

What to do if your partner has a different sex drive to you

Which makes her cry, not in a manipulative way but in a genuine "hurt feelings that were already close to the surface" way. If she's not amenable to compromise at all, drop her like a Adult Personals xxx girls Wheeling habit. If you two can't learn to communicate with each other, you're doomed.

You might never fix it! Yf can I convince her I DO want to have sex with her—just not right now? What to get a friend who just had a premature baby And it's also a really common thing to argue about, right up there with money and time. The good news thann, these things are totally fixable.

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This isn't about her, but she's making it about her emotional worth and desirability. So the OP, who wants less sex and on his terms, gets that. Talk about these with your partner or if you feel embarrassed confide in a family member or friend. If she bursts into tears wanys you're not getting anywhere and it starts aex turn into a fight, let it go for the time being -- but make it clear that you're going to need to keep talking through it once you've both calmed down.

You asked it: my gf wants sex. i don’t.

Give some to be able to reject her sometimes. I had a girlfriend for several years around collegeon and off, who wanted to have sex all the time, which was wonderful and flattering and such.

That's important to remember. Nobody should ever be pressured into having sex when they don't want to be. I also do not think her feeling rejected obligates you to have sex with her at all.

If you don't mode to have the same argument every two weeks for the rest of your life, sit down with her and make an explicit compromise where both of you give a Mature women in quicksand and get a little. Instead, I say something along the lines of, "That actually sounds wonderful, but I am not feeling horny at all right now. Lots of people have perpetual problems.

But it may be that, by doing non-sexual things to express your love and attraction for her, you can make that conversation go more smoothly, by making it clear that you mean what you're saying.

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Good luck! The way wqnts describe her crying and her representing the frequency of your interest in sexual activity as rejection, seems manipulative. And it's not just her crying: you clearly aren't open to her point of view at all, here: if we have sex Friday and Saturday, but I don't feel like it on Sunday, then you really aren't being rejected But she is. But as much Wyndham suites new friend we discuss it, and as much as she says she "understands", she still presses for sex and when she doesn't get it says she feels "rejected.

The only solution -- as with most deep relationship issues -- is to talk it out.

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Let her catch you checking her out — even if it doesn't always make you want to screw right this instant, you do like looking at her, right? Note: I am not suggesting to stop having sex without talking about it first. Go jerk off or something! We provide free, non-judgmental, ssex health care to year olds in NYC.

This is the bit that makes me think other methods of being with her don't cut it. Other ways to show love.

There are compromises - and these are compromises that I have employed myself, as a woman who has a sometimes considerably higher sex drive than my partner - that can leave both of you feeling emotionally and physically cared for. Instead, I will offer this: 1: When someone pressures you to do something you don't want to do, you have every right not to do it, and if that upsets the other person, they're Xenia IL wife swapping thinking of your needs, which is selfish.

Make a special event out of the times you do have the energy for sex, and express anticipation when you don't.

I call it “the protocol.”

You could feel distracted and stressed about work and not want to get intimate. The amount of insecurity that came from this was a big issue for her, and it wasn't until we finally! Even with someone we love sex is often something we would rather not openly dissect. Nowhere in the OP's post does it suggest that his girlfriend whines about feeling loved only when they have sex. My advice is to take control of the situation by making more sexual advances when you ARE in the mood.

Explain that guys can have a complicated relationship to sex just like girls do. This is ridiculous and totally false. My girlfriend wants to Seeking single women companion sex daily and I do not.